EP2 - Unmasking the Drive Within: Why Do We Struggle to Finish What We Start?

This episode delves into Gayle's personal journey of writing her memoir, revealing her struggles with finishing projects and how she's learning to overcome them. It's a heartfelt exploration of self-awareness,...

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EP2 - Unmasking the Drive Within: Why Do We Struggle to Finish What We Start?

This episode delves into Gayle's personal journey of writing her memoir, revealing her
struggles with finishing projects and how she's learning to overcome them. It's a heartfelt exploration of self-awareness, motivation, and the surprising power of discomfort, perfect for anyone who finds themselves starting strong, but losing steam along the way.


In This Episode, We Cover:

  • The surprising challenges that can arise when revisiting past traumas, even when you think you've healed.

  • How a "relationship with not finishing" can manifest in various areas of life, from creative projects to personal goals.

  • The intriguing connection between discomfort and motivation, and why "nice" sometimes fails to inspire us.

  • Practical strategies for staying motivated when the initial excitement fades, including setting meaningful rewards and building accountability.

  • The importance of honouring your commitments to yourself and finding joy in the journey, not just the destination.


Timestamps / Chapter Markers

00:13   My Relationship With Not Finishing
01:21   Reenacting Trauma
02:24   Getting Through It
03:07   Why is "Nice" So Unattractive For Me?
03:43   How Many Times Have I Done This In Life?
04:24   Can You Recognise This In Your Life?
06:34   Flipping The Script
07:03   3% Finish Their Book
09:56   Why Do I Thrive In The Uncomfortable?


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