Ep.2/Unmasking the Drive Within: Why Do We Struggle to Finish

 

Season 2/Episode 2/Unmasking the Drive Within: Why Do We Struggle to Finish What We Start?

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This episode delves into Gayle's personal journey of writing her memoir, revealing her struggles with finishing projects and how she's learning to overcome them. It's a heartfelt
exploration of self-awareness, motivation, and the surprising power of discomfort, perfect for
anyone who starts everything but feels like they struggle to finish anything.

In This Episode, We Cover:

  • The surprising challenges that can arise when revisiting past traumas, even when you think you've healed.

  • How a "relationship with not finishing" can manifest in various areas of life, from creative projects to personal goals.

  • The intriguing connection between discomfort and motivation, and why "nice" sometimes fails to inspire us.

  • Practical strategies for staying motivated when the initial excitement fades, including setting meaningful rewards and building accountability.

  • The importance of honoring your commitments to yourself and finding joy in the journey, not just the destination.

 

Timestamps / Chapter Markers

00:13   My Relationship With Not Finishing

01:21   Reenacting Trauma

02:24   Getting Through It

03:07   Why is "Nice" So Unattractive For Me?

03:43   How Many Times Have I Done This In Life?

04:24   Can You Recognise This In Your Life?

06:34   Flipping The Script

07:03   3% Finish Their Book

09:56   Why Do I Thrive In The Uncomfortable?

 

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